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His repentance Male A Sinner On The small girl's hand

2010-11-17T06:05:00.001+07:00

She lives in Riyadh, living in error and do not know God but a little.

Years knick not enter the mosque and never bowing to God, though only once. God requires repentance of his hands of his little daughter.

She told her story:

I used to stay up until morning with my friends to play around and joking. I left my wife in solitude and misery that only God knows. A faithful wife could no longer give me advice that was given advice not work anymore.

One night, I just returned from staying up late, the clock showed 03.00 am, I see my little wife and daughter falling asleep. Then I went into the next room to spend the remains of the night by viewing pornographic films via video, at that time, the time when Allah Azza wajalla down and said: "Is there anyone who pray so that I grant it?. Is there anyone who asks for forgiveness so that I forgive him?, Is there anyone who asks me, so I gave him. "

Suddenly the door opened and I saw my daughter who was barely 5 years old. He saw me and said: "Father, this is a disgrace to you, Fear of God", and repeat it three times and then shut the door and left. I was shocked and then I turn off the video. I sat pensive and his words were ringing in my ears and almost destroyed me, and I followed him out but he'd be back in his sleeping place.

I like crazy, not knowing what had just happened to me at that time. Soon a voice call to prayer from a mosque near the house that broke the darkness of night, dawn call to prayer.

I do ablution then go to the mosque. I'm not eager to pray, it's just because my daughter's words made me uneasy.

Prayer begins, the priest was Takbir and read some verses of the Qur'an. When he prostrated, I will kneel behind him and put my forehead on the ground until I cry hard without know why. This is the first time I bow down to Allah Azza wajalla since seven years ago.

The crying is a good opener for me, the crying has issued what is in my heart of unbelief, hypocrisy and damage. I feel the grain of faith began to seep into my soul.

After prayers I went to work. When I met with my friend, he was surprised to see me come fast but usually always late due to staying out all night. When he asked why, I tell you what happened to me last night. Then he said: "Be thankful to God that have moved the child so that you realize your negligence before the coming of death." After arriving dzuhur time, I felt quite tired because they have not slept since the night. Then I asked my friend to replace my job, and I went home to rest. I'm anxious to see my daughter who was the cause of my guidance and my return to God.

I went home and was greeted by my wife, crying, and then I asked, "What's wrong with you, wife?", The answer out of him like a thunderbolt. "Your daughter has died."

I could not control himself and wept. After a quiet my soul, I realized that what happened to me solely from Allah Azza wajalla exam to test my faith. I am grateful to Allah Azza wajalla. I picked up and contact my friend. I asked her to come to help me.

My friend came and took my daughter, bathing her and putting khafan cloth, prayer and took him to the funeral, my friend said: "Nothing is worth putting to the grave unless you", then I picked it up with tears in his eyes and put it in the grave. I'm not burying my daughter, but to bury the light that has illuminated the path of my life. I beg to Allah SWT for making it a barrier to me from the Fire and recompense kindness to my wife that patient.

UP, DOWN also WRONG

2010-11-17T05:14:00.004+07:00

In the ancient world in Arab countries, busy people riding a donkey as a vehicle. A father took his son to one place to bring a donkey. Both they boarded the donkey and then in a week. This situation attracted the attention of busy people. Some of them said: "This is Kes mayhem. Donkey was small. The two men aboard. Things like that torturing animals .. There is no direct humanity."

The father heard their comments. Then the father down and let her children alone on a donkey. His father went on the trip while walking. They, too, through a group of men crowded. Once again there are comments, "Brazen have children. He savory-delicious ride a donkey. Father left on foot."

The children hear their comments, then he went down and told his father also rode a donkey. The children walk to accompany his father on a donkey. They, too, through a set of people. Once again they heard the discontent "Father, no brains, he was pleasant ride kaldai, her sweaty left to run."

Heard comments that her son got out and walked together his father. Donkeys were allowed to walk alone. They, too, through a set of people. Still there is commented "What a fool parents and children. There is a donkey, but do not want to ride. If something like this, it's better just not bring a donkey!"

Hearing these words, the-father was telling his son. "This is what the state of society. They can only assess and see the mistakes of others. There just are not true. If we follow their words, can damage us. We should not accept their views continuously. We got all of them and we make Think what good to us. Do not mind the comments they .. "

Moral message:

• Most people just love to find fault with
• Opinions and comments they should not merely be followed unless there are principles and truths.

• Consideration should be based on the circumstances and scenarios that we face.
• A well made model, made poor demarcation

Story Tailor Shave

2010-11-16T07:12:00.001+07:00

A customer came to the barber to cut hair and trim brewoknya. The barber began cutting hair and begin to engage consumers who start to warm conversation.
They talked about many things and various variations of the subject, and an instant topic of conversation turned on the Lord.The barber said, "I do not believe that God exists.""Why do you say that?" Asked the customer.
"Look, you try to look ahead, in the street .... to realize that God does not exist "."Tell me, if God exists. Is there pain? Are there any abandoned children? Is there a difficult life? ".
"If the Lord is, there will be no pain or distress".
"I can not imagine the All-Merciful Lord will let it all happen."
The customer thought for a moment, but did not respond to what he said to the barber said, because he did not wish to engage an argument.
The barber's finish the job and the customer left the place the barber.
Some time after he left the room she saw a man on the street with long hair, wavy coarse (Java: mlungker-mlungker - Red), dirty and sideboards, never shaved. The man looked dirty and unkempt.
The consumer back to a barbershop earlier and said:"You know, actually in this world .. NO barber!"
The barber is not received, he asked: "You could really say that?"."I and my barber here. And I just shave your hair! "
"No!" Said in evasion of the consumer."The barber was NOTHING! For if there were barbers, there would be no people with dirty long hair and bearded like a man out there ", the consumer adds.
"Ah no, but the barber is still there!", Protested the barber."What you see is WRONG THEIR OWN, why they do not come to me to shave and trim his hair?", Replied the barber defensively.
"FIT, I AGREE ..!" Said the customer."That's the main point! .. Same with the Lord.
"What do you mean?", Asked the barber does not understand.
Actually GOD IS THERE! But what happens now.?Why do people DO NOT WANT HER TO COME on, and DO NOT WANT HER .. looking for?Therefore a lot of pain and sorrow stricken in this world. "
The barber was stunned!! In my heart he said: "That's true what he said .. why I do not want to come to MY GOD, to worship and pray, begging to be avoided from all tribulation in this life ..?"
If you think that GOD WAS THERE, to convey this story to someone else. May we always get the good and happiness in this life. Amien ..

Be careful with Praise

2010-11-15T06:52:00.001+07:00

Compliments are one of the dangers of the tongue. In some ways a compliment prohibited and unlawful.There are six danger praise, four hazards are on the praise and self harm were two people who praised or one who hears a compliment.1. The first danger is there in the flatterer is a lie.In the case of exaggeration, the act was generally tends to fall into the lie. Khalid bin Mi'dan said, "Whoever praises in front of crowds of a ruler or a person who actually did not have qualities such as praise, then God will resurrect the person is difficult to speak because his tongue when the Day of Judgement."
2. Riya.The second danger in self-praise those who praise is riya. Sometimes love is expressed by love of praise, but it does not seep into the hearts and the flatterer not feel confident in every speech. Thus he became the man who riya
3. People who praised sometimes do not know whether they have such qualities are praised it or not. It is reported that one day someone praise others in front of the Prophet Muhammad.Hear the compliment, he then said to the people who praise: "You have cut the neck of your brother. Had he heard the compliment, he will not earn salvation (good luck). "Then he said, "If you want to praise someone should say," I know him so or he is so. Allah is the one who is aware of whether that person is truly holy or dirty. I can not say too much about what God is to know about someone. "So if we say someone is a pious, devout, generous, is dangerous. Once 'Umar saw someone praising another person. Then he said to the flatterer, "Have you ever traveled with him? "He said," not yet! "'Umar asked, "Are you the neighbors all morning and evening?". He replied again, "No". Umar further said, "By Allah, I think you do not know him."
4. People who praise may be a penzalim and / or a wicked (people who used to perform immoral and a grave sin). Praising those who do wrong or evil in such cases is not justified or not kosher.
Prophet Muhammad has said, "Verily, Allah will rage when she heard a wicked in praise.Hasan Al-Basri said, "Whoever has someone praying for a long life unjustly, then he has committed sin to God in the world '
5. People will get two dangers touted as praise given to him.Praising it can lead to arrogance and pride in this person who is praised. The two things that can ruin and destroy myself a person praised.

6. The second danger when someone praised the people who praised became very excited and feel flattered by it (ie: felt he was good). Due to the person praised is leaving the effort to improve themselves because they think he has reached the peak of goodness and progress.
People who realized that he still has weaknesses and shortcomings will undoubtedly continue to strive to improve themselves, improve their behavior and ruqyah.Hence the Prophet denounced those who praise others with his saying, "You have cut your friend's neck. If he heard it and admit it, then he will not earn salvation (with pride himself that) "
In another hadith he said, "If you praise someone in front, imagine that you miss the middle of a sharp knife (cut) neck." Another word of Allah, "it's better to attack someone with a sharp sword than praise in front".
If the people who praised and commended those who survived the dangers of this, the praise is not prohibited, is, therefore, the Prophet often praised his companions. He said about Abu Bakr RA, "If the Iman of Abu Bakr were weighed with the faith of people around the world, then his faith is more severe."About Umar RA, he has said: "Had I not been sent as a prophet, Umarlah which will be sent as a prophet"With this praise, the companions do not necessarily become proud and arrogant but has made them humble.
Word of the Prophet SAW: "I am the leader and ruler of Bani Adam and there is no arrogance in this." In other words, he said the statement was not about to brag like that spoken by most people.
When one day he heard the crowd praising a man who died, he said: "He is entitled to receive such praise.
RA Mujahid said: "For all Children of Adam is a friend of the angels. If a Muslim say anything about whether other Muslim charities, the angels will say: "O Children of Adam, keep secret among ragasia-secret, still pleased with what you have, and praise your Lord who has been keeping secret things that the secret to yourself "

OBLIGATION TO person praised
People who are in praise must save themselves from a sense of pride, arrogance, conceit and laziness to improve themselves. A person will not be able to save yourself from crime when not realize the ultimate goal and result of all his deeds.
Prophet once said: "Throw the dust near, those who praise"
A scholar, Sufyan bin 'Uyainah said, "People who really know themselves are not likely to be affected by the praise."When a devout praised by many people she will say: "O servants of God came to me with a hatred-MU".Other godly in praise of a crowd, so she said, "Oh God they did not know about me."One day Ali KW praised, then he said, "O Allah, forgive me for what they say. Make me better than what they say about me. "
Someone praising Umar RA that, when he heard the compliment saying, "You are destroying the middle of me"

Story of A Mother

2010-11-14T06:32:00.003+07:00

Once, a few years ago a young scholar from surabaya're traveling on a plane to Jakarta. Beside it sits a middle-aged mother. The Youth greet, and soon they were dissolved in small talk. "Mom, what event is going to jakarta?" Asked the young man. "Oh ... I'm going to jakarta keep" connecting flight "to singapore to visit my second child," replied the mother. "Wow ... great mother's son ", The young man replied, and paused for a moment.
The young man reflected. With a courage that is based on curiosity young man continued to question. "If I am not wrong, children in singapore before, the second son's mother? What about brothers and sisters? "Oh yes of course", the mother recalled: "My third child of a doctor in Malang, a third worked in plantations in Lampung, which is the fifth work to become an architect in Jakarta, which became the sixth head of the bank branch in Navan, and the seventh into lecturer at a college in Hyderabad. "
The young man still, a great mother, can educate their children very well, from the second to the seventh child. "So what about the first child's mother?" Long sigh, the mother replied, "My son who first became farmers in Godean Jogja. He worked on his land itself is not too wide. "The mother said.
The young man immediately replied, "I'm sorry bu ...., well maybe a little disappointed with the mother's mother's first child, because fair-brother are well educated and successful in his job, while he became a farmer?"
What the mother replied ..???Do you want to know the answer ..???
.... With a smiling mother replies:"Ooo .... no, not really my son ... That VERY PROUD with my first child, because it was he who financed her sisters from her farm" ... the young man staring ...
Lessons have been learned:Everyone in this world is important. Open your eyes, your mind, your heart. The point is we can not make a summary before we mebaca book until finished. The wise man speaks "The most important thing in this world is not WHO ARE YOU? But WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR OTHERS? "

Being the best SURE

2010-11-13T06:13:00.001+07:00

In the community, especially in developing countries, many communities are affected by the disease that is misleading myths. Among the myths are:
1. Education Myths, "I can not succeed because of my education low."2. Myth fate, "I'll fight anyway, I can not possibly succeed because my fate was already like this By design".3. Myth health, feel themselves not physically strong.4. Myth of age, "This is a job for a young child, I was too old for this job."5. Myths of gender, "Clearly aja could, he's a woman sayakan man" or vice versa.6. Myth zodiac, "she zodiac tiger can indeed be successful, I do zodiac pig" and so forth. And other myths disease.
If the myths that have been used as a way of life, then our fate will be difficult to change. Negative mental attitude as above, is clearly a wrong understanding. Especially if it has been entered into our subconscious, it will bring very negative impact in our lives as a whole. Make us lose and fail before the fight!In entering the business world, there are two myths that the greatest influence, namely the problem of capital and education. I just do not have both when starting a business first. All I have is the idea of making cards pearl words and the courage to try. I have the ability of Information Technology, and the potential that's what I use. I teach information technology in private to get the initial capital.So I left without money, without money, without adequate formal education, but which precedes my business? Idea! And the belief that I could succeed, I have the right to succeed! With this understanding, comes the courage to try.From denial-denial and struggle through the process of extraordinary resilient, tenacious, and resilient, the business has only been able to grow well. Failure and rejection are the consequences of any decisions we take. We only have two choices, succeed or fail. Dalah key action and a positive mental. For both options could be a "true" because behind every failure there is a process of education, a lesson for us to do and act more wisely in the future.Like the pearl of the words I often say: "The price of a failure and success is not judged by the final result, but from the struggle." If it is recognized by everyone, then there is no such thing as soluble in frustration, disappointment, depression, apathy, loss of motivation, much less desperation.EQUIPMENT TO BE THE BEST. It was not an easy thing to do. It should be a strong motivation, goal commitment, as well as through the exercise in real life practice. As human beings who understand, realize, and can think clearly, then we must be brave and take a stand with all our energy, time, and mind to continue to develop themselves as much as possible.Knowledge to maintain self-motivation can be learned by anyone. One of the easiest exercises to strengthen the self is self-talk. We explore the positive potential within us with melakkukan dialogue with ourselves.Make sure that we have the ability to succeed. If others can succeed, we also have the right to succeed just like them.Belief in God, and prayer and practice in this life is an effort that can give strength extraordinary self-motivation.Other mental attitude we need to keep yan is aware that the success we achieve not only rely on ourselves, there's always someone else share in it. Humility is the key word, but on the contrary, not low self-esteem at the time of failure.Thus not only the adults in living life, which is certainly the quality of our lives will get better, more successful, which in turn will be beneficial also for others.

Window

2010-11-12T06:58:00.000+07:00

In one room of the magnificent building, a director was having a meeting with employees. They are preparing a new marketing strategy. Visible faces serious. Director who was standing next to the projector board, seemed to provide motivation to participants to enhance their performance."We must be able to compete with other companies," said the director. Her hand pointed toward the building next door, "Look. Look at the window of our competitors. "The meeting participants seemed turned to the side," That's definitely the dirtiest windows in town, "said the director. With a sardonic smile, his face seek approval from those present. "Yes that right, sir?" He asked a senior employee of the famous sage there.
Someone who looks old was just smiling. Silvery white hair visible when hit by sunlight in the afternoon. "Yes, probably true director. But, try asking janitor to clean up our windows for a moment, "he said slowly." Oh yes, ... of course, "replied the director. Not for some time, came a messenger with cleaning equipment. Soon the room was cleaned the glass window from the outside.
Glass windows of the room that was now changing. sunlight, seemed more freely entering the conference room. Rather than cynically aware of the speech earlier, Mr Director is now seen holding the hand on his chin. Nodding, he commented, "It is amazing. Once the window glass is cleaned, our competitors and even then helped clean the glass windows as well. Now, the window glass looks clean! "Some meeting participants look back a smile. Likewise the senior employee. "Well, apparently it was afternoon. This meeting is complete, and remember, we must be able to compete with other companies, "said Mr. Director few stutters.***From small, we are often taught about the competition. Since the beginning, the words of the enemy and opponent had been introduced by our environment. Our world, as if split into two, between us and them, between the I fund you. And then, came with no conscious, the existence of prejudice, suspicion, a certain belief in those who differ from us.
Could be, the fact it was not entirely wrong. However, troublesome it is often accompanied by suspicion-suspicion that is less well against the "opposition" and "enemy" we. We often judge people by the wrong view, or with a misguided vision. We are then used to give an opinion which is always slanted and unfair.
Where is this error started? Could be, something that was dirty, wrong caused by our outlook is always skewed and unfair, because we are used to seeing with glasses dusty and no clear vision. Therefore, accustom our eyes are staring with a clear view. Practice, friends, our eyes with a clear vision. Because, from where will attend a clean opinion and a fair attitude. Through the things that's going to get a real assessment

Tiger and wolf

2010-11-11T00:28:00.001+07:00

In a forest, stay a wolf limping. Animals that live with a tiger, big hairy golden brown. Injuries suffered by wolves, occurred when he tried to help the tiger who chased by hunters. The wolf tried to save his friend. But saying, an arrow that had been shot on his hind legs. Today, wild-eyed animals that can not hunt anymore. He lives in a cave, far from the township residents.The tiger knows how reciprocation. Each finished hunting, always remaining in its mouth a piece of meat to take home. Although a bit, the wolf is always to part. The tiger understand that without the help of his friend, he'd be dead hit by arrows. In return, the wolf is always trying to keep the tiger family of disorders other animals. Despite the fact he could not walk and just sat crumpled corner of the cave.Apparently, the incident has reached the ears of a hermit. He and some students want to see and take lessons.In the morning, they departed. After a day of walking, they reached the mouth of the cave, where the tiger and the wolf was settled. Incidentally, the tiger had just returned from hunting, and was giving a piece of meat to the wolves. "What lessons can you see from there?" Asked the hermit to his disciples. A student answered, "Teacher, I see the power and goodness of God. God will surely meet the needs of each of His servants through a variety of ways. "The hermit smiled. The student went on his words. "Look at the wolf. Without trouble, he can stay alive, and get food. "He waited for an answer from the teacher. "Yes, you're not wrong. You pay attention. but, stop hoping to be a wolf, and start acting like a tiger. "*********It is true that God created the fish for mankind. But if God created the fish in the cans themselves? I believe, the fish at present to us through the sweat and hard work of fishermen.So, often indeed in our lives, there are fragments of a crippled wolves and tigers who want to return the favor, it is not wrong if there we can see the greatness and compassion of God.However, there is one small thing that should be in mind that: sharing, helping, helping already should be a priority in our lives. Not because it is a necessity, not because it encouraged a sense of pity and want reciprocation.Share and help, it should flow in our blood. There will be found in the values and spark the light of God. Because there, it will reflect that the greatness of God present in the acts and behavior that we do. In the share will dwell virtue, beauty and majesty heart heart. Friends, if we could choose, stop hoping to be a wolf paralyzed, and began to imitate the example of a tiger.